Interviews in Fort Worth went great!
Saturday, January 23, 2010 at 8:55PM Well we just got back from Forth Worth from the interviews that are technically still a part of the home study. And I am thriled to say that Tifany and I both think that everything went GREAT! It was a great time to get to know our case worker even better, and she was so sweet. She talked to both of us from 1pm to 4:45pm, then she talked to Tiffany seperatly for 15 mins and then me for 15-20 mins. It just went just fine and even though we were a little worried, we knew that all we wanted to do is for her to just get to know who we really are.
We had a great trip getting to stay with family, and getting to visit The Gladney Center! We are just one more step closer to finding a little one to love! We are so excited!!!! And can not thank all of you enough for your prayers and thoghts while we were there!
So what's next?
Well, our case worker said that it usually takes 30 days for her to write up her recomendation based upon the home study (that includes the visit to our house, and the interviews) then she gives that recomendation to another person @ Gladney for thier approval, and then we will be "officially approved" for adoption! After we are "officially approved" we will need to take a few parenting classes online via Gladney's website and a few local classes at a local hospital for infant CPR training, etc... (Oh and 50% of the total amont of money will be required when we are officially approved!) That is crazy, but the good news is that we will be able to start filling out grant applications from different companies that give financial support to adoptive parents in the process! Then, we also get to start creating our "book" that is to some up evertthing Tiffany & D.G. And it is this book that will be given out tothe birth mothers and they choose us. And they may request to meet us in person (which would require us to fly to where ever the birth mother lives) and that would be great too, and of course it all depends on how far along in the pregnancy she is and several of ther factors. So, threre really is no point in asking anyone in the adoptin process how much more time it is going to take because that is just unknown unless you are nearing the final stpes, but a better question would be, "Where in the process are you?" (Just a little pointer for anyone asking questions for adopting parents in the process. :)
So, there is never any known time frame for the process, just the next step, and each step is different on the time frame, but Every step we take is a step closer and we are flat out beyond excited about getting closer and closer to loving a little one, birth mother, case worker, and anyne else that gets involved with us! ha ha..bring on the blessings! :)
Thanks, as always, everyone for your support! We love each and every single one of you!
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